Developing

What is developing?

We all  have our own idea about developing, but what is really the essence of developing?
Developing is about untangling yourself from wrappings. It makes you less complicated, the less wrappings, the closer you get to your own core.
So, developing is going to  your own core, where you will find simplicity instead of complication.
All Connections and treatments that are developed within the Wholism Project have the goal to help people with their development in the direction of their own core.

From head to heart

It is also a road in which you conquer your fears step by step.
Fear keeps us locked in our head, on our thinking. The more you let go of your fears, the more you get in touch with your heart, you feeling and therefore with your love.

Fear weakens, love strengthens

The remarkable thing is that fear is weakening and love is strengthening.
Fear also always leads you exactly to the place where you don’t want to be. Decisions that are made out of fear, every time lead you down the wrong road. In this way you create that of which you’re afraid.
It is remarkable how this works. When you’re afraid of dogs, every time you encounter dogs, they seem unfriendly to you, whereas this almost never happens when you’re not afraid.
If you let love guide you, you truly always get where you wanted to go. This usually doesn’t follow the route that you pictured for yourself, but in the end your deeper life’s wish realizes itself.

Fear also repels, whereas love attracts.
How do you feel after a conversation with somebody who’s in the grip of fear in comparison to somebody who talks lovingly about his work or life?

Fear also makes you lonely, whereas love connects.
Fear thus represents the contracting principle and love the expanding principle. Love is like a baton that is given forward.
Because of this, our Connections and treatments have a wider range beyond the people who receive them.

The developmental path

What does the developmental path in the direction of your own core looks like?
The developmental path is a road of return. Everything that we have encountered on our way out, we encounter on our way back. When you have traveled through a tunnel on your way out, you will automatically traverse this tunnel on the way back.
So, on your way back you will again meet the trauma that you have acquired on your way out.

Origin trauma

Where do these trauma from the way out come from?
We originate from the Divine. In our developmental path we increasingly separate ourselves from the Divine. It is so wonderful near the Divine that it is a painful process.
It can be compared to the feeling that a little child has when it is separated from its mother.
In addition, we often have misunderstood the intention of the Divine.
The following story about our cat Norretje may clarify this.

While demolishing an already half fallen wooden shed on our land, our cat Norretje lay down in a spot where she would be crushed, should the shed completely collapse.
To get her out of the danger zone, I lovingly pick up Norretje, who always follows me around when I’m outside working.
Clearly offended and out of sorts, she then walks away.

A path through the dark

After our separation from the Divine we were meant to increasingly connect ourselves to matter, which is a developmental road to a lower vibratory level. Thus, we went from a path out of the Divine with its endless high vibrational level to a vibrational level that is so low, that the energy solidifies to matter so to speak. We turned our backs to the Light and went into the darkness.
Thus we have, during a period of 300,000 years, moved through the cosmic night, a road into the darkness which increasingly lead us away from our Source. Logically, this road
was accompanied by a lot of fear.
We now have come to the end of the cosmic night and the cosmic day is dawning, the era in which we may develop ourselves in the direction of our Source again.
When we are prepared to face and resolve our fears and trauma, we can regain our deep contact with our Divine origin and make life a celebration.

Say ‘yes’ to life

If you do something reluctantly, you close yourself off from the help your soul always wants to give you.
Your soul tries to show you your path through life, the path where you can learn most from it. Everything that happens in your life therefore has a Higher purpose.
But if you say ‘no’ to an event or do what you have to do reluctantly, you shut yourself of from the help your soul would like to give you.
By teaching yourself to accept what is happening in your life, and to say ‘yes’ to it without judging it, your soul will always lead you to a positive way out and you make a leap in your development at the same time.
Every development feels like an enrichment. So, if you teach yourself to say ‘yes’ to life, you enrich yourself continuously and you’ll become satisfied with your life.